To be transparent is to be see-through, or clear. This connotes being open in one’s communication and thinking, and being accountable to yourself and those around you. It is a buzz word used a lot in the business world today. After all the cover-ups of truth we have seen in the financial world and economy over the last few years, there is a new trend towards more collaboration on a global and local level. This type of cultural change fosters transparency and is vital for successful collaboration.
What holds us back from being transparent and disclosing all we feel? Perhaps it is the fear of being rejected or thought of as incapable. But if we as individuals cannot fully accept ourselves, including our views and thoughts without judgment, then how can others? It all starts with you as an individual, not with those around you, although they do provide a good mirror for your self.
I started writing this morning thinking about how I need to put my thoughts and ideas out on the web more. I realized that blogging more will foster more self-acceptance for me. There is a part of me that thinks, ‘why would people want to read my blogs? What have I got to say that is different than anyone else?’ And yet, that really has nothing to do with it. What counts is the act of putting my authentic self out to the world for them to read, view and witness. It is about being transparent to those I don’t even know for the good of accepting who I am at my core.
To continue sharing my REAL self with the world on the web knowing that some may continue reading, some may disagree, and some may throw tomatoes is part of my growth. The goal is not to see who accepts my writing and thoughts. Rather, it is about the act of putting myself out there – overcoming my fears of rejection and becoming more accepting of who I am.
What can you do this week to move into more self-acceptance? What action can you take that makes you pause because of what others might think? What rings true with who you truly are?
I invite you to go for it. Take the leap and know that by becoming more transparent, you are learning to be more accepting of you. By doing this, others will take note and be inspired to do the same.
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Live Well,
Katie
